We live in a world that has adopted the mindset that my life is my life so I’ll do whatever I want! Sadly many grace believers have accepted that same mindset and they call it freedom. True freedom that comes by grace produces responsible living not irresponsible selfishness. One of the purest forms of selfishness is a disregard of how our decisions and actions affect other people. The more mature you are, the more you’re concerned about how your actions and lifestyle influence other people. Jesus said in Mat 5:16 - let your light shine so that others may see your good works and glorify your father, which is in heaven.